Parents, Make a Pledge

October 24, 2012

By Scott Westfall
MSU Institute for the Study of Youth Sports
 

NOTE: This is the second of a two-part viewpoint explaining the importance of coaches and parents setting proper examples for young athletes in their treatment of game officials. Click to read Part 1.

From time to time, even the most well-intentioned parents yell at officials things they are not proud of later.

As the head coach, it is essential to communicate expectations at the annual preseason parent meeting. Let parents know you want this to be classy program, and you need their help. Inform them that you, your assistant coaches, and the players (their children) will not be yelling at officials, and that you would be grateful if they would do the same.

Let them know that although other teams and their fans might holler at the officials, this team will be above the fray.

Encourage parents to applaud players from both sides. While they undoubtedly want your team to win, it is a sign of class to applaud the opposition for a good effort and/or performance at the end of the contest. In addition, ask your parents to sign a Parent Pledge Form stating that they will hold themselves to a higher standard. See an example below:

I.                     I pledge to respect the sport. I understand the importance of setting a good example for my child. No matter what others may do, I will show respect for all involved including coaches, players, opposing coaches, opposing players, opposing fans and officials. I understand that officials make mistakes. If the official makes a bad call against our team, I will respect the sport and remain silent. 

Initials:    ________                Initials:  ________

II.                   I pledge to contribute to a positive team culture.  I will not be the parent in the stands or behind the scenes who puts down the kids or the team. I understand this creates a negative atmosphere and can damage a team’s culture. If I have any problem, I pledge to either bring it to the coach with a solution-oriented mindset, or choose to remain silent. In either case, I will contribute only in a positive way to my child’s team culture.

Initials:  ________          Initials:  ________

After instituting this practice, the first season might seem like more of an experiment. The second season may become a work in progress. But by the time the kids and parents have been in the program for three and four years, it will have become the norm and soon a tradition that is gladly passed down to the new families in the program.

The mantra of your parents will change, and they will take pride in acting differently than what they see at other schools. Other teams will see your parents stand up and applaud participants from both sides during wins and losses, and this act of class will become your team’s identity.

Respecting authority is essential in any society. This respect must be given to judges, policemen and school principals, to teachers, coaches and even referees.

Reinstituting this respect for officials is going to be a challenge, but a challenge that is worthwhile. A coach has the power to transform a program, which will in turn affect the way assistant coaches, parents, and fans conduct themselves.

In the end, the individuals who will receive the greatest benefit are the ones you are doing your job for in the first place – the kids.

Scott Westfall has spent the last 10 years as a teacher, coach, and athletic director in Fort Collins, Colo. He currently is working on his Doctorate at Michigan State University, with an emphasis in Sport Psychology and Athletic Administration, and assisting the MHSAA with its student leadership programs. Westfall is a former athlete who participated in football, wrestling, tennis and cross country at the high school level, and rugby at the collegiate level. He can be reached at [email protected].

Century of School Sports: From Nearly A to Z, Schools Repped by 221 Nicknames

By Geoff Kimmerly
MHSAA.com senior editor

May 20, 2025

Combine all the Bronchos, Cubs, Loggers, Purple Hornets and Tractors running around Michigan’s sports fields on any given day, and they still would have some work to catch up with the wide scattering of Eagles representing their Michigan high schools across the state.

There are a combined 221 mascots representing the MHSAA’s 754 member high schools this 2024-25 school year.

A total of 127 schools have a mascot reserved all to themselves, including those five listed above – Holly (Bronchos), Detroit U-D Jesuit (Cubs), Boyne Falls (Loggers), L’Anse (Purple Hornets) and Dearborn Fordson (Tractors).

And then there are the Eagles. A total of 48 schools are represented by the fearsome birds of prey, and that’s not counting the Golden Eagles (Brooklyn Columbia Central), Aztec Eagles (Detroit Cesar Chavez Academy) and Soaring Eagles (Hannahville Nah Tah Wahsh).

The next-most popular nickname – Panthers – is adorned by 28 schools, followed by 26 Bulldogs, 23 Vikings and 22 Wildcats. Rounding out the top 10 are Falcons and Cougars (both 20 schools), Trojans (19), and Tigers and Warriors (both 18). The Mustangs (15 schools), Pilots (11) and Comets, Lakers and Spartans (10) also reach double digits.

There have been several mascot changes of late as a number of schools have moved away from Native American names and imagery. Those have resulted in a few new sets of Red Devils, Red Wolves/Wolves, and RedHawks/Red Hawks as the most popular selections among those making a switch.

Another fun fact: Every letter but “U” and “X” start at least one MHSAA member high school nickname.

Big assist to the Quakers (Lansing Eastern) and Zebras (Wayne Memorial) for cutting down that list – and keep an eye out for Underdogs and Xylophones coming to a school near you.

Previous "Century of School Sports" Spotlights

May 13: These Record-Setters were Nearly Impossible to Defeat - Read
May 6:
200+ Representatives Fill All-Time Council Roster - Read
April 29:
MHSAA Programs Prioritize Health & Safety - Read
April 23:
Patches Signify Registered Officials' Role in MHSAA Story - Read
April 16:
Student Advisory Council Gives Voice to Athletes - Read
April 9:
State's Storytellers Share Spring Memories - Read
April 2:
Sharp Leadership Synonymous with MHSAA Success - Read
March 25:
Athletic Directors Indispensable to Mission of School Sports - Read
March 18:
2025 Finals Begin Next Half-Century of Girls Hoops Championships - Read
March 11:
Boys Basketball's Best 1st to Earn MHSAA Finals Titles - Read
March 5:
Everything We Do Begins with Participation - Read
Feb. 25:
Slogans & Logos Remain Unforgettable Parts of MHSAA History - Read
Feb. 19:
MHSAA Tickets Continue to Provide Fan-Friendly Value - Read
Feb. 11:
We Recognize Those Who Make Our Games Go - Read
Feb. 4:
WISL Conference Continues to Inspire Aspiring Leaders - Read
Jan. 28:
Michigan's National Impact Begins at NFHS' Start - Read
Jan. 21:
Awards Celebrate Well-Rounded Educational Experience - Read
Jan. 14:
Predecessors Laid Foundation for MHSAA's Formation - Read
Jan. 9:
MHSAA Blazes Trail Into Cyberspace - Read
Dec. 31: 
State's Storytellers Share Winter Memories - Read
Dec. 17: 
MHSAA Over Time - Read
Dec. 10:
On This Day, December 13, We Will Celebrate - Read
Dec. 3:
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Nov. 26: 
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Nov. 19:
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Nov. 12:
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Nov. 5:
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Oct. 29:
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Oct. 23:
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Oct. 15:
State's Storytellers Share Fall Memories - Read
Oct. 8:
Guided by 4 S's of Educational Athletics - Read
Oct. 1:
Michigan Sends 10 to National Hall of Fame - Read
Sept. 25: MHSAA Record Books Filled with 1000s of Achievements - Read
Sept. 18:
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Sept. 10: 
Special Medals, Patches to Commemorate Special Year - Read
Sept. 4:
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Aug. 28:
Let the Celebration Begin - Read