Wroubel Continues to Champion Athletics
By
Geoff Kimmerly
MHSAA.com senior editor
January 20, 2016
Betty Wroubel still remembers the first pop fly she caught 57 years ago.
Perhaps fleeting for most, it was one of the earliest memorable moments that eventually led to a career stretching four decades and impacting thousands of high school athletes across our state.
Wroubel – one of Michigan’s winningest high school coaches in both volleyball and softball with more than 2,000 combined victories – also has served as an athletic director and in various other leadership positions since beginning her educational career in 1975. Her contributions to educational athletics over the last 40 years will be celebrated Sunday, Feb. 7, when she receives the MHSAA’s 29th Women In Sports Leadership Award during the WISL banquet at the Crowne Plaza Lansing West.
“When I look at all of those names (of past WISL winners), knowing what they meant to the advancement of girls sports in schools and the total sports culture, it boggles my mind that I can be mentioned in those,” Wroubel said. “I’m not so sure I belong in there. I’ve had great leaders; my high school teachers and coaches were great leaders. I know nothing more than to work hard to make things better, sometimes inch by inch, sometimes two inches forward and one back – and sometimes leaps forward.”
The honor, given annually by the MHSAA Representative Council, recognizes the achievements of women coaches, officials and athletic administrators affiliated with the MHSAA who show exemplary leadership capabilities and positive contributions to athletics.
Wroubel, a 1971 graduate of Clawson High School, first returned to teach and coach at her alma mater, and currently serves as the athletic director, varsity volleyball and softball coach at Pontiac Notre Dame Prep. She also continues to teach sports medicine and leadership classes at the school.
She’s served in the athletic department at Notre Dame Prep since the school opened in 1994 and also coached and served as athletic director at the former Pontiac and then Oakland Catholic high schools after her stint as a coach and teacher at Clawson. She’s third on the MHSAA coaching victories list for volleyball with a record of 1,306-290-122. In 2015, she became the 14th coach in MHSAA softball history to win at least 800 games and sits 12th on that career wins list with a record of 826-293-3.
Wroubel also has been a registered MHSAA official in both volleyball and softball since the 1975-76 school year and has held numerous leadership positions as part of the Michigan Interscholastic Athletic Administrators Association, her sports’ coaches associations and the Detroit Catholic High School League. She’s hosted numerous MHSAA Coaches Advancement Program sessions and mentored young officials as part of the MHSAA Legacy Program.
“Betty Wroubel has dedicated much of the last four decades to assisting student-athletes and is passionate about the mission of educational athletics,” MHSAA Executive Director John E. “Jack” Roberts said. “Education is her life’s work, and that remains clear in her emphasis on coaches training and desire to continue teaching students as well – both in the classroom and on the volleyball court and softball diamond. We’re pleased to honor her with the Women In Sports Leadership Award.”
Wroubel earned a bachelor’s degree in education from Central Michigan University and her master’s in classroom teaching from Michigan State University. She was a five-sport athlete at Clawson High School – participating in basketball, volleyball, track & field, tennis and softball – and went on to play volleyball, tennis and field hockey at CMU.
Among those who provided Wroubel early mentorship was Judy Hacker, a teacher and coach at Clawson from 1962-95 who died in 2011 and like Wroubel was a pioneer in girls athletics during their early growth in the 1970s and 80s. Wroubel also was impacted athletically by her parents Marshall and Lucille; Marshall was a recognized youth baseball coach in Clawson and with Lucille provided opportunities for Betty to compete during an era when they were only first starting to emerge.
During her early years coaching and teaching at Clawson, Wroubel also worked as an assistant athletic director at Pontiac Catholic. She then took over as fulltime athletic director there, leaving her alma mater, but continued to pass on those many lessons learned to another generation including her Pontiac Catholic volleyball coach at the time, Dianne Phillips – who has gone on to rank 11th on the MHSAA volleyball coaching wins list with 986 victories mostly over the last 17 seasons at Dearborn High.
“Betty has dedicated her expertise, time and energy to coaching hundreds of young women in more than just sport, but in life lessons as well,” Phillips said. “Betty’s leadership skills and grounded philosophies are a model to all who aspire to teach and coach. The positive impact Betty has made on the lives of so many young people can never be overestimated.”
Wroubel led teams to MHSAA championships in two decades; her Pontiac Catholic softball team won the Class C title in 1983, and her Notre Dame Prep volleyball teams won Class B titles in fall 2007 and 2013. In 2010, Notre Dame Prep dedicated its new athletic facility in her name: the Betty A. Wroubel Athletic Performance Center.
She is a member of various Halls of Fame – she’s been inducted by the Detroit Catholic League, Michigan High School Softball Coaches Association, Michigan High School Coaches Association, Michigan Interscholastic Volleyball Coaches Association and the Michigan chapter of the United States Specialty Sports Association. She received the MHSAA’s Allen W. Bush Award in 2010 for her continuing service to high school athletics, with the WISL Award her second from the association.
Her administrative efforts were recognized twice by the Detroit Catholic League with its Tom Kelly Athletic Director of the Year Award in 1994 and 2007. Wroubel also was named National High School Coach of the Year by the American Volleyball Coaches Association in 2007 and state coach of the year by MIVCA for Class B in 2007, 2013 and 2014. She also was named Michigan High School Coaches Association Volleyball Coach of the Year in 2014.
Wroubel served on the Catholic League’s executive board and as an officer for more than 30 years and on a variety of MHSAA committees during her long tenure as an athletic director. She has served on boards for the statewide volleyball coaches association for more than 30 years and statewide softball coaches association for more than 25.
As would be expected by a coach with such success across multiple sports, Wroubel remains an ardent supporter of athletes playing as many as possible despite a recent shift toward specialization.
“By (coaching both), I hope it sends a nonverbal message that if I can coach, they can certainly play multiple sports,” Wroubel said. “That’s been the biggest change; kids are so specialized. The pressure is on us (coaches) to do more and more training. But during the school year, we don’t do anything; I don’t get out a softball. That tells them to go play basketball, ski, go cheer, go bowl.”
Wroubel also volunteers for her church and the American Red Cross, and with a local food bank and soup kitchen.
The first Women In Sports Leadership Award was presented in 1990.
Past recipients
1990 – Carol Seavoy, L’Anse
1991 – Diane Laffey, Harper Woods
1992 – Patricia Ashby, Scotts
1993 – Jo Lake, Grosse Pointe
1994 – Brenda Gatlin, Detroit
1995 – Jane Bennett, Ann Arbor
1996 – Cheryl Amos-Helmicki, Huntington Woods
1997 – Delores L. Elswick, Detroit
1998 – Karen S. Leinaar, Delton
1999 – Kathy McGee, Flint
2000 – Pat Richardson, Grass Lake
2001 – Suzanne Martin, East Lansing
2002 – Susan Barthold, Kentwood
2003 – Nancy Clark, Flint
2004 – Kathy Vruggink Westdorp, Grand Rapids
2005 – Barbara Redding, Capac
2006 – Melanie Miller, Lansing
2007 – Jan Sander, Warren Woods
2008 – Jane Bos, Grand Rapids
2009 – Gail Ganakas, Flint; Deb VanKuiken, Holly
2010 – Gina Mazzolini, Lansing
2011 – Ellen Pugh, West Branch; Patti Tibaldi, Traverse City
2012 – Janet Gillette, Comstock Park
2013 – Barbara Beckett, Traverse City
2014 – Teri Reyburn, DeWitt
2015 – Jean LaClair, Bronson
PHOTOS: (Top) Pontiac Notre Dame Prep volleyball coach Betty Wroubel, left, celebrates the 2013 Class B championship with her team. (Middle) Wroubel instructs her players during the Semifinal match that season.
Where There's a Willea, There Are Several Ways for Oakridge to Win
By
Tom Kendra
Special for MHSAA.com
April 9, 2025
Every so often at practice, Muskegon Oakridge softball coach Joe Coletta will hear fighting behind him and worry he has a problem on his team.
“Then I turn around and I see that it is just the Willea sisters getting after each other,” explained Coletta, who is in his 17th year as softball coach and 43rd year overall of coaching at Oakridge.
“And I know that we’re all good.”
The Willeas – specifically fraternal senior twins Kylee and Gracie and sophomore Avery – definitely push each other and certainly cause problems for opposing teams as one-third of the Oakridge lineup, all playing critical positions in the field and occupying key spots in the batting order.
Kylee is an honorable mention all-state pitcher for the Eagles, who compiled a 16-5 record last spring with 141 strikeouts and a 2.36 ERA. She also will be expected to knock in runs from the No. 4 spot in the batting order.
Gracie returns as an honorable mention all-state centerfielder, using her instincts and speed to cover tremendous ground. At the plate, she bats second and hit .402 last year.
Avery made a huge impact last year as a freshman and now will move to the crucial shortstop position as a sophomore. She hit .382 last year with 28 RBIs.
The Willeas have continued the strong softball tradition at Oakridge, helping the team to three consecutive West Michigan Conference titles, two straight Districts and a breakthrough Division 2 Regional championship last year – the first that all three Willeas were on the varsity together.
Now the trio gets one last season to play on the same team, and they are determined to savor every second.
“I don’t want it to be done,” said Kylee, who has added a curveball to her repertoire for this season. “I love high school ball, and it’s so much fun to play with my sisters and have our parents and family in the stands.
“I love that we come from a small school and have made something big out of it.”
Sisterly bond
Kylee came into this world two minutes before her sister Gracie, and the two have been together for most of the past 17 years.
But while the twins have many things in common (such as top-10 graduating academic status in their class and exceptional leadership skills), there are certainly differences that are evident in their roles on the team.
Kylee, who shares the pitching load for the Eagles along with sophomore ace Kelcey Osborne, is a steady and calm leader with the perfect temperament for a pitcher, according to Coletta.
Gracie is über-competitive and vocal in centerfield, and says she keeps herself entertained by making sure all of her teammates are lined up correctly and focused on every pitch.
“I guess you could say it is a blessing and a curse at the same time to have three sisters on the same team,” Gracie said with a smile. “We butt heads at times, but overall it’s a great thing. We definitely have a bond that can pull us through the hard times.”
Avery, who everyone describes as a blend of her older sisters, could be the key to the Eagles success this spring. Not only is she moving from second base to the pressure-packed shortstop position, but she is also being asked to provide more power and drive in runs at the plate.
Oakridge has become known for its home-run power, with past bashers Jasmine Pastor and Andrea Romero-Serrano and last year’s 1-2 punch of Kaelinn Jozsa (14 home runs) and Maddie Clark (12 home runs), who were both first-team all-state and have graduated.
In fact, Osborne is the only returning player who had more than one home run or more than 30 RBIs last season.
“Our team is a little different this year, but we have a lot of athletic girls,” said Avery. “I feel like I will have more power at the plate this year. That’s what I’m working on.”
Daddy’s girls
The Willea softball era for the Oakridge varsity started three years ago, when Gracie made the varsity right away as a freshman, while Kylee started that season on the junior varsity.
But injuries forced Coletta to move up Kylee, then a 14-year-old freshman as well, to pitch in a critical early May rivalry game against Ravenna.
“I remember being so nervous that I was shaking,” said Kylee, who is known for her rise ball and changeup. “I literally thought I was going to throw up.”
After a shaky first inning, Kylee settled down and led the Eagles to a huge doubleheader sweep. She has been a fixture in the circle ever since.
It’s no surprise that the Willeas were ready for varsity softball as freshmen, as they have played summer travel ball for years with the Michigan Sabercats – with their dad, Dan, as their coach. All three have a tight bond with their father, both as coach and dad.
“When we’re driving home after a tournament, one of them will ask me a question and I’ll say: ‘Do you want Coach to answer that, or do you want dad to answer that?’” said Dan, a handyman who also has worked tirelessly to improve the Oakridge softball facilities.
Gracie was the only one of the three who wasn’t “all-in” on softball from the start. All three girls grew up following in the footsteps of their mother, Shanda, in gymnastics, but Gracie took it the farthest – becoming the first gymnast at her mother’s family gym (Gonyon’s Gymnastics) to make the all-region team a few years ago.
“When I was little, I did gymnastics and I thought that softball was stupid,” Gracie said with a laugh. “But then I fell in love with it.”
The athleticism she developed in gymnastics is evident in the way she plays centerfield, making diving, acrobatic catches look somewhat routine.
“Gracie covers so much ground out there and is absolutely fearless,” said Coletta, who is assisted this year by former Oakridge players Alyssa (Wahr) Fessenden and Morgan (Giddings) Wahr.
Avery Willea might actually be the most like her father, even though he hasn’t coached her nearly as much as the twins. Avery and Dan share a passion for the outdoors, and when they take a rare break from softball, can often be found hunting and fishing together.
One final run
The singular focus of the Willea family this spring is to make the most of their final season together.
Specifically, the Willeas would love to put together a repeat of last spring, when the Eagles not only repeated as West Michigan Conference and Division 2 District champs, but then played some of their best softball in wins over Grand Rapids Catholic Central (13-4) and Allendale (14-8) to capture the second Regional title in school history.
That led to a police escort out of town, as residents and classmates lined the streets to send the team off to Ferris State for the Quarterfinals, where the Eagles lost to eventual Division 2 champion Gaylord.
Oakridge, 2-0 this season, has managed to get in only one doubleheader, a sweep of Division 1 Muskegon Mona Shores, before this week’s spring break, but faces a challenging, whirlwind schedule for the next two months.
“Softball is a pitcher’s game, and we’ve got that this year,” said Coletta, who also has talented sophomore Chloe Smith backing up Kylee Willea and Osborne on the mound. “And it’s sure nice having girls like the Willeas as one-third of the lineup. They all know how to play the game, and they make things happen.”
The other seniors on the 13-player Oakridge roster are Maddy Bowen, Brenna Cabrera, Rylee Vanderputte and Lily Coppedge.
Kylee and Gracie Willea will play together for at least the next two years at Muskegon Community College, but the whole family knows that their 12-year-plus softball odyssey - with countless restaurants, hotels, hilarious stories and treasured memories along the way – is nearing its end.
And all they can do is make the most of every minute this final spring.
“I’m going to miss them so much the next two years – it’s going to hit me pretty hard,” said Avery, with a sigh. “So, yes, all we can do is make this the best season ever and not take anything for granted.”
Tom Kendra worked 23 years at The Muskegon Chronicle, including five as assistant sports editor and the final six as sports editor through 2011. E-mail him at [email protected] with story ideas for Muskegon, Oceana, Mason, Lake, Oceola, Mecosta and Newaygo counties.
PHOTOS (Top) Clockwise from left: Kylee Willea delivers a pitch, Avery Willea gets ready at her shortstop position and Gracie Willea makes a diving catch in centerfield. (Middle) From left: Avery, Gracie and Kylee pose with the trophy after winning a tournament title in 2022. (Below) Dan Willea, who has coached his daughters for several years, takes a photo with Kylie and Gracie (standing) and Avery five years ago. (Photos courtesy of Shonda Willea.)