An Athlete’s Father
December 16, 2014
My father died two years ago today. His life was filled with extraordinary success as an athlete and coach and was complimented with countless accolades as an administrator. But what he was best at was being a father.
He was especially adept – instinctively, not by any book of instruction – at being an athlete’s father.
The only unsolicited advice I can ever remember him offering me was to “stay tense through the whistle” on the football field, believing a player was most at risk of injury when letting down in anticipation that the play was ending.
Dad never critiqued my play or criticized the coach’s play-calling. If there was ever a parent who had earned the privilege of hovering, it was he; but he never did.
Dad understood that most people need praise more than a push, and approval more than advice. As an athlete’s father, he was perfect.
Planning Period
June 27, 2017
When I was a teacher, I cherished my planning period – that nearly 60 minutes of quiet time every day when, while most other teachers in our school were in class, I could pause to plan for the classroom duties ahead of me.
In a somewhat similar way, I have come to count on and enjoy three times of the year which serve as the major planning periods for my work at the Michigan High School Athletic Association. These three periods are the several weeks late each fall, winter and spring when other MHSAA staff are consumed with the administration of MHSAA tournaments.
I hate to distract these busy tournament directors as they handle countless communications with coaches, athletic directors, officials and local tournament managers. Instead, I look ahead to what is next for the MHSAA and how to frame subjects to help facilitate some progress.
During the recent planning period (aka, the MHSAA’s spring season tournaments in baseball, softball, golf, lacrosse, soccer, tennis and track & field), I was looking down the road and around the corner regarding these topics especially:
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Basketball tournament scheduling, Finals sites and District seeding.
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Alternative approaches to regulating transfers.
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Tangible outcomes from the Task Force on Multi-Sport Participation.
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Re-energized efforts to promote good sportsmanship.
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Strategies to turn around declining football participation.
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Continued expansion of services for junior high/middle school programs.
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Next steps needed to improve participant health and safety.
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Innovations for recruiting and retaining contest officials.
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Guiding and governing participation by “special” student populations.
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And always ... how next (and every day) to better define and defend educational athletics.
These are the topics I hope to study, survey and discuss with my MHSAA colleagues and others during the next 10 months.